Genuine Christians prove themselves to be genuine Christians by the way they respond to the word of God - their thoughts and action align with God's Word.
If others were to see your life, especially that part of your life that is private, would they see an imitator of Christ, or would they see an imposter?
If we call ourselves a Christian, then our commitment should be to walk in a manner worthy of the calling we received from God into His kingdom and glory.
How much courage do you need to remain steadfast and committed to a ministry that is met with suffering and mistreatment and opposition and persecution?
Living expectantly means living with a focus on eternity rather than on this present world. An eternal perspective helps us keep our priorities straight.
A good church will be the place where you will find genuinely transformed people who have responded to the gospel, and become imitators of Jesus Christ.